THRIVE
I help sex workers
PERSONAL COACH TO THE ADULT INDUSTRY
Sex work isn't always
empowering,
but sex workers are powerful
Sex workers are some of the most dynamic people I have ever known. Simultaneously tenacious, creative, open-minded, empathetic, and, yes - insanely powerful.
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Yet, a few years in, many find themselves exhausted, burn-out, and even a bit trapped by the industry.
Despite having more freedom and money than once seemed possible, life can begin to feel a little empty.
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As an industry veteran, I've been there and I know exactly the feeling.
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That's where coaching can help. As a certified coach with trauma-informed training, I'm here to help you thrive, beyond your persona.
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Whether that's setting boundaries with clients, reconnecting to your passions, or even creating a retirement plan; as your coach, I've got your back.
Get the support you need from someone who's been exactly where you are
BURNOUT
NEURODIVERGENT
GETTING SH*T DONE
RETIREMENT & TRANSITION
Maybe you've noticed you're snapping more at clients, canceling last minute, or needing substances just to get through the week.
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Your bank account looks great, but damn, you're exhausted.
Together, we'll map out what your ideal work-life balance looks like: your ideal clients, schedule, and boundaries. You'll learn to stop burnout before it even happens, without sacrificing your financial goals.
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Every week, you swear you're finally going to make a budget, start hitting the gym, or launch that side business. Friday rolls around... and you promise - next week. You spend hours researching how you're going to make changes-- but it never sticks.
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As neurodivergent solopreneurs, we lack the practical experience and the daily structure or urgency of deadlines that makes getting shit done easier for civies.
in the trenches
As your fellow ADHDer in-the-trenches, I'm here to help! I'll help you figure out what strategies work for you, break down the overwhelming tasks, and help you stick with your goals - once and for all.
Leaving the industry can feel nearly impossible.
It makes a lot of sense. You worked hard & sacrificed a lot to make it in sex work. At this point, anything else feels like a massive gamble.
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As your coach, we'll a create a crystal clear picture of your end-goal: the number you need saved, the business or passions you want to pursue, or the home you want to buy.
We'll use that vision to build your next steps and timeline, while addressing all of your concerns, so that you can feel 100% confident about taking that next big step.
Hiii! I'm Natalie,
industry veteran turned certified life coach
I became a certified coach after seeing myself and my colleagues struggle with the same issues over and over again. Sure, we had figured out "success" in the industry. But, many of us were feeling stuck in our personal lives and getting burnt out with work.
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When I finally decided to get support in making changes for myself, I realized I wouldn't be able to fully trust coaches or personal development groups to understand, much less accept, that I was a sex worker.
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I also noticed that every other field had hundreds of specialized coaches, whereas we seemed to only have crisis services. More than that, the groups and coaches I worked with weren't equipped to address the barriers that many face in the industry face - like chronic illness, trauma, neurodiversity, or significant financial pressures.
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This all inspired me to sign up for coach training nearly 2 years ago. As cliche as it might sound, I felt like I had found my calling from day one.
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I've since operated an active coaching practice outside of TCC and trained extensively with trauma experts and master coaches. I'm beyond thrilled to finally be able to start working with the community that not only inspired me to leap into coaching in the first place but is the group I believe in most.
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With love,
Natalie
Still have
QUESTIONS?
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Like, what exactly is coaching?
Let's be honest; plenty of awful people who used to hawk skinny tea now call themselves "coaches." Technically, anyone can call themselves a coach.
However, certified coaches abide by ethics, standards, and training requirements. That's what I do!
Want to learn more about ICF- certified coaching? Click here.
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Or do I even really need a coach?
No one needs life coaching, just like nobody needs a personal trainer. But, having one can really speed things up.
If you've tried to make changes before and couldn't stick with them, or have trouble even getting started, those are good signs that a coach could make the difference.
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Maybe, you're thinking: I'm just lazy/unmotivated. I need to buckle down for once.
Maybe. I actually think people are very rarely lazy. Instead, we often just don't even know how to make a change and lack the support to do so. It's overwhelming if you've never done it before.
Or, we "buckle down" and change everything in 24 hours, but end up giving up after a few weeks (or days).
Coaching helps you work through what's really holding you back and helps you make sustainable changes you can actually stick with long term.
Wait.. how can I trust this faceless person?
On a practical level, I've gone to extensive lengths to ensure that we both maintain privacy. Please check out this page for more details.
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Of course, I'm not the right coach right for everyone. I'm not a good fit if...
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You're brand new to the industry.
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Your main concern is keeping the bills paid & food on the table. If you're in survival mode, it's not the right time to start coaching—resources here.
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Your mental health is significantly interfering with your day-to-day functioning. Therapy is a better fit for now.
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You want advice or mentorship on becoming a successful sex worker.
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More questions?
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